aragajag wrote:
Then they go to a friends house and peer presure adds it weight. You could live in the bush without any mod cons, send your kids to school and its there too. Keep them sheltered home schooled with no knowledge of that and you would end up with a super human or another crazy because you are human to and still learning. Shame on the people whos trade it is to steal the minds of the young.
That's just it. Even if the tv is off 99% of the time, in the city, my kid will still be subject to the conditioning at school, at their friends house, on the school trip, on the bus ride home, on every street corner, etc. The most saturated form of this conditioning is via other children, as you said, peer pressure. Every bit of parenting that I practice while my child is with me, will be undermined in the short time that he/she is not with me. And if I want to ensure that he/she is exposed to the right environment, one that upholds my set of values, I have to pay big bucks via private schools and community centers.
Anyway, I often hear "well we turned out fine and we were just as exposed", but even a peek outside your car window will show you how VERY different it is today. And I was raised through the 80s/90s which were relatively tame in terms of consumerism (compared with today).
I tend to think that girls have it waaay worse than boys. I have a 3 month old boy now, but I am dreading the days when I'll have to steer a little girl clear of all the empty, superficial, selfish and promiscuous ideals that consumer culture will do it's best to instill in her. It makes me think twice when I check out a hot 18yr. old in her skimpy shorts. What chance does she have at youthful innocence and a strong sense of self-worth?
I'm finding it more hard as I grow older not to judge. When I meet someone in marketing or advertising or pharmaceutical sales all I wanna do is lay on the verbal assault. But I realize that their just as much victims of conditioning. Sometimes I think, maybe if I help them realize how they 'hurt' culture, they'll look for a career in something more rewarding and ethical. Big maybe.