Counter Thoughts and the Formula of Compassion

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PostFri Oct 12, 2012 11:14 pm » by 99socks


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In a way there is many different kinds of suffering. I guess it is HOW we use our compassion to counter destruction into growth. And in this thread particularry how to change anger into compassion. The way i see it not only the one the anger is directed too suffers, but also the agressor, because the agressor is unaware of the connection he or she has towards everyone around him. Karma. And how it ripples...




That ain't karma. That's called psychopathy and the subsequent lack of self-awareness.


It isnt Karma it triggers karma. I see it like this: When you keep falling into patterns in wich you play the role of either one extreme victim or the other extreme agressor. You will inevitabily atract and repell the events needed to come back to balance in wich you fully learn from the experience and become 'happy'.



THAT is called co-dependency. It isn't karma.
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PostFri Oct 12, 2012 11:19 pm » by Seriouscitizen


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That ain't karma. That's called psychopathy and the subsequent lack of self-awareness.


It isnt Karma it triggers karma. I see it like this: When you keep falling into patterns in wich you play the role of either one extreme victim or the other extreme agressor. You will inevitabily atract and repell the events needed to come back to balance in wich you fully learn from the experience and become 'happy'.



THAT is called co-dependency. It isn't karma.


Only if you isolate it in scientific psychological explanation, not if you see it in light of law of atraction. Or any other 'energetic spiritual' light for that matter. But call it what you like. The image stays the same

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PostFri Oct 12, 2012 11:23 pm » by 99socks


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It isnt Karma it triggers karma. I see it like this: When you keep falling into patterns in wich you play the role of either one extreme victim or the other extreme agressor. You will inevitabily atract and repell the events needed to come back to balance in wich you fully learn from the experience and become 'happy'.



THAT is called co-dependency. It isn't karma.


Only if you isolate it in scientific psychological explanation, not if you see it in light of law of atraction. Or any other 'energetic spiritual' light for that matter. But call it what you like. The image stays the same




It IS a playing-out of the law of attraction; a very unhealthy one. However, there is never a balance and it does not lead to happiness.
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PostFri Oct 12, 2012 11:28 pm » by Seriouscitizen


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THAT is called co-dependency. It isn't karma.


Only if you isolate it in scientific psychological explanation, not if you see it in light of law of atraction. Or any other 'energetic spiritual' light for that matter. But call it what you like. The image stays the same




It IS a playing-out of the law of attraction; a very unhealthy one. However, there is never a balance and it does not lead to happiness.


In my spiral of life it is. But I can only speak for me. As you can only speak for you

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In the middle of the spiral is when an experience comes to balance and it will atract energy, this energy is experienced as a bliss. Like Dan Winter explaines in the science of fractals.

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PostFri Oct 12, 2012 11:35 pm » by Seriouscitizen


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PostSat Oct 13, 2012 2:34 am » by Newearthman


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Tips to remember when using the Formula of Compassion:

1. Begin using the Formula only after you have expressed the anger or other negative feelings you have. It will not work if you miss these steps.

2. Feel the feelings of your situation, express them verbally and physically first, then begin the Formula on the issue. Feeling them and physically expressing them brings the emotions up through the Heart Chakra and into the High Heart Chakra where they will be transmuted and released. These dense, lower frequency emotions are the fuel that once transmuted into the higher frequency of compassion through the High Heart (acts like an incinerator), floods through your body like an orgasmic release and changes your DNA at the same time.

You will continue this cycle of bringing up old issues as well as dealing with new lessons using the Keys of Compassion until you have cleared enough to complete the rewiring of your 12 DNA strands. Afterwards, you will continue to clear emotionally in order to complete ascension, but now you will have the support of new neural pathways and their associated healthy behavior patterns.
The Nine Steps of the Formula are as follows:
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Step One: Lesson
What is the lesson I wanted to learn regarding this person and the conflict we are experiencing?


Ask your Higher Self/Soul, angels or spirit guides to help you. Whatever works for you. Ask them to show you the lesson you wanted to learn. It will be on your life blueprint. Your life blueprint is your roadmap through your present lifetime. It contains all the lessons, contracts and major events for your present lifetime, along with the people involved.

Step Two: Contract
What is the contract I made with this person?


Ask to be shown the contract(s) you made to learn this lesson. If using the Formula to release one individual, ask for the contract that pertains to you and that person. There are usually many contracts with many people to learn the same lesson. The ratio of contracts to lessons varies depending on how long and how many lifetimes you have been trying to learn that particular lesson. The more lifetimes, the more present lifetime contracts for that lesson.

Remember that no one agrees to make a contract with you unless they too, need to learn the same lesson. In some cases the other person in your contract is there to learn the flip side of the lesson.

Step Three: Role
What is the role this person is playing to act out his/her part of the contract?


Ask to see and understand the role you play and the role the other person is playing in the contract. Ask for assistance in understanding how the roles look as they are being played out. I visualize a stage and myself as a actress and the other person as an actress/actor. It helps me to see the roles more clearly because I am able to view their behavior as a performance.

Step Four: Aspect
What is the aspect of myself this person is reflecting back to me?


Once again ask for assistance in seeing and understanding the aspect of yourself that the other person is reflecting back to you. They are your mirror, reflecting an aspect of yourself through their behavior. I have always found this step to be the hardest to handle. It calls for brutal self-honesty, but it’s well worth the effort.

Sometimes, instead of reflecting an aspect of your behavior, they are reflecting something you judge. An example would be someone who steals from you. You may not be a thief but you may be judging thievery or people who are thieves.

Step Five: Gift
What is the gift this person is giving me by playing their role?


Ask for help so you can see and understand the gift the other person is giving you by playing their role. The value I mentioned earlier is the value of the gift, and the gift is the lesson learned.

Process Check

Once you have completed the first five steps, you should be feeling a surge of compassion and gratitude for the other person involved in the conflict/contract. If not, then go back to the lesson and start over.

Sometimes it takes a few attempts before we finally get to the lesson we are working on. I find I usually know I’ve got it when I feel a warm feeling in my heart. It can be likened to a strong feeling of knowing like an Ah Ha!

The final four steps are used to finish clearing and releasing the emotional negativity/garbage from the physical body, out the high heart chakra.

When I think of the high heart chakra, I envision an invisible cone shaped device imbedded in my auric field. It attaches to my physical body just above my heart and below my collarbone. When I use the Formula it opens so the transmuted energy/compassion can move through it and out.

It is my understanding that the high heart chakra performs the same function as the colon/anus and bladder/urethra in the physical body. Both perform functions of elimination for waste/toxic matter. The only difference is that the physical system eliminates dense physical matter and the high heart chakra eliminates etheric matter.

Step Six: Acceptance
Can I accept the role that this person has played, along with their actions, to help me learn this lesson?

Acceptance is one of the four elements of unconditional love. Acceptance is part of compassion and is unconditional love in action. This also includes acceptance of who the person is, without judgment. I find that when I am having a hard time with this step that I can clear it when I remember they are a soul in a body like me, and we are helping each other with a lesson.

Step Seven: Allowing
Can I allow myself to let go of my anger towards this person who played the role to help me learn the lesson?


Allowing is also one of the four elements of unconditional love. Allowing is part of compassion and is unconditional love in action. This includes allowing the person to be who they are and to follow their chosen path, regardless of how you feel about it.

Usually, by the time I reach this step, I find it very easy to let go of my anger towards the person because I am feeling the gratitude and compassion that comes from seeing the pain they suffered in playing their role for me.

On another note: Allowing is easier to do when we let go of needing to control someone’s behavior or choices for their own good. We tend to control people out of fear that their actions will hurt them/and or us. If we understand that everything has a value, then we can begin to release our need to control because we understand that there will be a value in each and every outcome.

Step Eight: Release
Can I release this person from blame?


This one is easy when you understand that you are not a victim. On the contrary, you are an active participant in a contract and lesson that you helped set up.

Taking responsibility for your part in the contract enables you to release the other person from blame for the role they played to help you learn the lesson you wanted to learn. You understand that just as you are not a victim, nor are they a villain. Devin, my 9D guide, has told me many times that it is much harder to play the role of a villain than it is to play the role of a hero.

Releasing someone from blame is different than forgiving them. Forgiving someone is what we do when we feel they have sinned against us, as in being victimized. Release is the key element in the Formula. The release is created by your compassion for the other person.

Step Nine: Kindness
Now that I have released this person, can I be kind to him/her, and if so, how can I do it and when will I do it?


At this point you should be feeling the intensity of the release through the high heart. I find the degree of the feeling differs according to the emotional intensity of the issue. The more emotionally charged the issue, the more intense the release.

I have found, as have others, this step to be the most emotional step. I am filled with gratitude and compassion when I reach this step and my only thought is how to make amends and thank them.

Now that you are feeling the gratitude and compassion, having released the other person from blame and anger, and realize you can be kind to them now, you are just about finished with the Formula. The final two parts to Step Nine are:

a) How will you show your kindness, and

b) When you will do it?

These last two parts are very important and I encourage you to complete them as quickly as possible since the process will not be complete until you do. A letter or phone call to the person to say thank you for the lesson will do. I find that sharing the lesson I learned from them goes a long way in healing the pain we both felt.

Caution! Don’t take them through the Formula. They won’t understand you and will usually become angry and defensive unless they know the Formula too. Just thank them for helping you become a better person.

Changing the Energy

Once you have completed the Formula, then it is time to do something with the contract. The contract is energy like everything else, so you can change its form into something else, sort of like working with Leggos.

I usually envision the contract dissolving into a thousand pieces of light energy, and then I send that energy to someone who is ill to assist in their healing. On other occasions I deposit it into an energy account I have created to manifest one of my desires like a new house or something. You can also deposit it someone else's account to assist them in manifesting one of their desires.

Anyway, this is where I can have a little fun with the contract and be creative. A positive ending to a painful lesson, don’t you think?


You should know that this is utter new age nonsense. :bullshit:

Sorry to say but I'm starting to worry a bit about you lately when I read your posts and watch your video's. Something just doesn't feel right to me so be carefull who you trust and what you decide to pursue.

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PostSat Oct 13, 2012 11:01 am » by Seriouscitizen


Devin, my 9D guide, has told me many times that it is much harder to play the role of a villain than it is to play the role of a hero.

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I'm sorry NEM but i have to do a PACMAN on you.

Damn fucking right it is easier to play the role of the Hero than it is to play the role of a vilain. All of our beliefssystems say we need a HERO to save us like we are to fucking incompetent to take care of ourselfs. PLease see the mindfuck here.
So please don't try and save me. PLease save you from yourself.
Fucking hypocrit. New age nonsense, this coming from the guy hitting on me with Anastasia and also the same guy afraid of coming on an airplaine because it might crash. And also the same guy starting this whole online LOVE thing for the sake of spreading it, because he tought the world was coming to an end in 2012?

Seriously F U right now. Thank you for highlighting that, i actually filtered that the first time i read the whole thing. Thank You. AND FUCK YOU TOO.
I need to let al this fucking anger out in order to grow. YES thanks for the reminder.
I have been so fucking patient with you. I have even played your game on YOUR FUCKING REQUEST to reply to your DTV post even tho it didn;t feel right HENCE why i never actually said anything to actually confirm your so called TRUE LOVE, and i take full responsability for being the dumb fuck on that, thank you socks for stating the obvious. It was all you 'being romantic' NOR did i ever confrim this being TRUE LOVE on skype. THIS WAS ALL YOU WANTING ATTENTION. Same with the fucking song. remember me saying a hidden purpuse? If you fucking love me in a romantic way, act up like a man and just fucking love me. And please start with yourself mister 'whatever makes you happy' I am already happy asshole. Even right now i am happy mad. YOU FUCKING DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. And stop blaming society and your fucking family, that are actually being the hero letting their 30 year old constant depressed son staying in their basement for free. I would be fucking gratefull for a mom like yours that actually cares for you. Spoiled brat. Its not mere the system. ITS YOU. fuck you for making fun of your overweight family too. selfrightious prick. show some fucking respect. Thats right you wanted an online thing.
I stayed on the fence letting the online thing play out for fucking to long out of respect for your feelings. BEcause i can't lie. Thats right i hate fucking lying. I think your an pussy ashole. some fucking hybrid. PLease install a mirrir in your fucking brain. ALL OF THIS LOVE TOWARDS ME WAS MERE YOU WANTING TO GET SOME FUCKING CONFIDENCE. YOU HAVE ALL THE TOOLS TO GET SOME FUCKING CONFIDENCE> YOU ARE AWESOME> BUT YOU ARE A PUSSY ASSHOLE TOO.


And go ahaed make fun of me, make fun of my singleparent situation. You couldnt even make fun of my 8 year old daughter. SHE FUCKING OWNED YOU. You wouldnt even stand a change with her. Be my guest.
And you know what my community sevice job actually asked if I couldn't break another persons jaw so i could stay there. People love me because I love me. And I love them back. You are great everyone is great. We are all connected, US two too. AND YES I FUCKING BELIEVE IT.

So thank you. AND this fucking formula its great and i dont even care right now if i didnt play completely by the rules. But i do have a warm fuzzy feeling in my heart right now.

NEM I LOVE YOU. yes i might seem crazy, I am. I fucking love life. its crazy wonderfull. strange beautifull. fuck new age. I dont belive in god i know god. we all do. we all talk to him some without even knowing it. fuckint hate me for sayin it. i dont care. i fucking love myself. and you.

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Thank you for showing me the contract in wich i agreed that you would show me that i should never DOUBT MYSELF. And that i can follow my feelings. And that i don't need to save any other PUSSY ASSHOLE again. I am gratefull that i did in the past. And i am gratefull for all the friendships that i got from it. But most of all i am gratefull for myseff.. Im happy i solved that piece of the puzzle


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PostSat Oct 13, 2012 11:21 am » by Troll2rocks


So NEM and you were "somewhat" playing games on here in terms of the whole love thing ?

Playing to a crowd, if you will.

Interesting...

You have not really given your side on this whole strange affar SC. I appreciate you doing so, and I hope that members on here do not come in and insult you for doing so. This is obviously a much deeper thing than any of us knew. I hope that you two can resolve your differences peacefully and in private.

Lets hear no more about any of this on here now.

So lets all move on people.


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PostSat Oct 13, 2012 11:34 am » by Seriouscitizen


I am not acually as angry as it might seem when you read it real fast. Read it real slow. It hasnt been a game from my part. But this will be my last words about it.

I aint sorry about anything but i do encourage to take it light :)

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PostSat Oct 13, 2012 11:39 am » by Troll2rocks


Seriouscitizen wrote:I am not acually as angry as it might seem when you read it real fast. Read it real slow. It hasnt been a game, not from my part. But this will be my last words about it.

I aint sorry about anything but i do encourage to take it light :)

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I follow, I think. its all good, its been entertaining from the perspective of viewers, but I don't want to see either of you hurting over this. So my advice would be, avoid each other until ready to mingle and enjoy friendship.

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