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PostWed Jun 29, 2011 9:15 pm » by Mozi!!a


Love and Fear we need them both. fear is learning.
love is the understanding of what you have learned.


nobody and i mean nobody can escape Yin and yang.
i have tried so many thing to find the third, you might call it the element.

but no luck :bang; but imagine the possibilities if we can find that :shock:
in other words, we are 2 dimensional being lol

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PostWed Jun 29, 2011 9:19 pm » by Slith


fossileyesed wrote:have some kids and it will all be made clear.the scariest words i ever heard were"i'm pregnant".
the fear left at the moment of birth.
the awe and wonder of love.
i'm not with the mother anymore,but still love her.i never lost her,she just had a different road to take.
our children bond us.theres a little pain about that,but not fear.
the love is well worth the pain.
fear has nothing to do with it (imho)

peace

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PostWed Jun 29, 2011 9:33 pm » by The57ironman


i've often thought about how different my life would have been.....had i had children.....

i've never had that completion to the soul , as some of you have....

but i do realize the complimentary/supplementary aspect of having that love ......




and i think it's the interaction with the opposite that makes you feel whole.........



.................being in the room minutes after a friends child was born was the closest i've ever come to feeling the creator's presence......


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PostWed Jun 29, 2011 9:38 pm » by Slith


the57ironman wrote:i've often thought about how different my life would have been.....had i had children.....

i've never had that completion to the soul , as some of you have....

but i do realize the complimentary/supplementary aspect of having that love ......




and i think it's the interaction with the opposite that makes you feel whole.........



.................being in the room minutes after a friends child was born was the closest i've ever come to feeling the creator's presence......


it's great hearing your thoughts on love guys

Yeah, we got a real cool crowd here for sure. Very intelligent and I luv reading all the posts
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PostWed Jun 29, 2011 9:47 pm » by Newearthman


I can see how children can fill the empty void called love but is it not selfish in some way to bring a child into this world with no clear direction? I always think if I do have a child one day it will only be when I'm rich and full of knowledge about this world so I can at least give the child a chance to be truely free. I avoid relationships for this very reason. I don't think I'll ever be ready to have a child because there is too much other stuff I want to expirience before I die in a blink of an eye.
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PostWed Jun 29, 2011 9:53 pm » by Slith


newearthman wrote:I can see how children can fill the empty void called love but is it not selfish in some way to bring a child into this world with no clear direction? I always think if I do have a child one day it will only be when I'm rich and full of knowledge about this world so I can at least give the child a chance to be truely free. I avoid relationships for this very reason. I don't think I'll ever be ready to have a child because there is too much other stuff I want to expirience before I die in a blink of an eye.

Children don't ask to be born. I took the responsibility of raising them, many don't. That pisses me off
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PostWed Jun 29, 2011 10:19 pm » by Mrmcnuggets


newearthman wrote:I bring this up because I'm feeling very empty today. I love my dog more than anything else in the world and I'm terrified of losing him prematurely. The thing is tho I don't have much love for anything else (even my own family who are good people) and I feel like I want to leave my family life behind and explore the world without fear. The thing is they are not "awake" and cling to love for comfort. I see the big picture and the scope of the universe while my family see's the classic settle down with a job and start a family. I see myself as a temporary observer and realise life can end at any moment. I want to feel free and not restricted by the fear of loss but it's hard when everyone around you is caught up in the illusion of life in our society.


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PostWed Jun 29, 2011 10:20 pm » by kentrb


imagine a tribe with out children.not much future in a tribe like that.
they would probally sit around all day and talk about the impending death of thier tribe.
a tribe full of children probally wouldnt have time to think about death.
to busy living to think about death.
unfortunatly,children dont shape the world.we do,the adults.
the dieing comes after the living.
love is part of living.
i didnt plan on having kids.sure glad i did though.
my kids taught me about being a grand parent.thats a whole other lesson on love
its not that bad newearthman.really.
i dont got a pot to piss in and it turns out thats not so bad either.
my grand kids dont hold it against me,lol.
i got the world trying to tell me what to do and think.the world doesnt know shit about my world.
in my world i got grand kids.


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since i made this vid my grandkids have introduced me to superhugs.
you cant have superhugs without grand kids,lol
go have some kids dude,you wont regret it
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PostWed Jun 29, 2011 10:52 pm » by Boondox681


good stuff new,i appreciate it..if i may.
If you really love some thing than that love will be accompanied by an equal amout of fear, fear of losing what you love.

this statement is true for 'love'
but not for 'unconditional love'.
to love unconditionally is to love without fear of 'losing' something you you don't have.

a person says,"i want love in my life"..ok,how does he go about getting that?
he 'gets' it by giving it away.
once you give something away,you(your soul) knows you 'have' that....
or else you could not have given it away.

peace and thanx

new,i'm truly sorry about your dog.
my cat of 7 years,masaya(the momma kitty),went missing 6 days ago and it's been harder than i thought.
we have a lot of foxes and coyotes and her brother,fogo,was gone with her for 3 days but came back injured..at least he's home and ok.
call me a puss,but i miss her a lot.
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PostWed Jun 29, 2011 10:53 pm » by Georgedragon


demobe wrote:Love and Fear we need them both. fear is learning.
love is the understanding of what you have learned.


nobody and i mean nobody can escape Yin and yang.
i have tried so many thing to find the third, you might call it the element.

but no luck :bang; but imagine the possibilities if we can find that :shock:
in other words, we are 2 dimensional being lol

thanks for the post NEM :flop:



You can only escape them by joining them, there you will find the third element, Nirvana.

Thank you Demobe and all of you for reminding me! :sunny: :sunny: :sunny:

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