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My children see dead people


TREMBLING with fear, ten-year-old Fae Jackson darted out of her bedroom and down the stairs to her mum.

She had just seen the wispy image of a person - who had hissed into her ear: "Can you hear me?"

It was the first of hundreds of ghost sightings that would plague the young girl and lead her to believe she may have psychic powers.

Incredibly, Fae's younger brother, Ashley, has now started reporting similar eerie sightings - despite not knowing of Fae's.

Mum Lynn has come to accept her kids have supernatural powers and that, just like the movie The Sixth Sense, her children can "see dead people".

To Lynn, this is anything but a special gift - she sees it as a curse she would love to break.

The 39-year-old, from Waltham Cross, Herts, says: "It feels like someone is bullying my children and I can't do anything about it.

"It would have been easier to deal with if they had an illness. At least I would know where to go for treatment.

"Fae has got used to it and now she enjoys having this ability - but Ashley hates it."

Last week we revealed one in five Brits have seen or felt the presence of a ghost - and that 53 per cent believe in psychic ability. The research coincides with Matt Damon's new film, Hereafter, about a reluctant medium. Fae, now 13, and Ashley, eight, can relate to that.

Stay-at-home mum Lynn says: "The first sign was when Fae started primary school.

"She used to tell me one of her friends was purple or the teacher was red. So one day I told her, 'No darling that boy isn't purple'. She said, 'Mummy I mean the colour around him'."

Now they both believe Fae was recognising auras, the glow said to radiate around a person.

Ghostly sightings started when Fae turned ten, and appeared nearly every day. Once Fae reported her bed being shaken by a frustrated female ghost.

Another time she said she could feel the energy of an old woman against her back while showering. She even says that at times she can feel ghosts playing with her hair.

A figure who regularly appears is "the druggy man", who has droopy eyes and slumps next to Fae in her room.

Lynn says: "How do you deal with something like that? She was terrified. I did start off thinking it might be attention-seeking, but you know your own children. She was shy and not a story teller."

In her skinny jeans and patent Dr Martens, petite Fae today seems at ease with her powers but her huge blue eyes still betray her fear during one of the most terrifying incidents.

She says: "I had walked out of my bedroom and there was a mirror at the other end of the hall. In my reflection I saw a person's head on my shoulder. It was red. I was so scared. But now I understand that it is my grandad and that he is my spirit guide, who is protecting me."

Fae matter-of-factly goes on to relate how she encounters these unexpected visitors.

She says: "It's not like seeing something solid like a chair, it's like a glimpse of the person.

"Mostly I can sense something or feel the energy there and the picture and details come into my head. Like their name can pop into my head or how they died.

"If I close my eyes I see their picture building up. It happens so quickly. I have all this information in a couple of seconds.

"I used to be really scared, I wouldn't like the dark and I wouldn't like looking in the mirror in case I saw something."

The double blow came when Ashley began to see ghosts too.

He refuses to discuss the idea that he may be psychic. Lynn says: "We had been careful to keep everything that was going on with Fae from Ashley. I didn't want him to be frightened. Then, about a year ago, he refused to go into our conservatory and wouldn't go to the toilet alone.

"I asked him what the matter was and he told me, 'There's a head following me around'.

My blood went cold. How do you tell a seven-year-old that some people can see dead people?"
Lynn's husband, David, 45, is clearly concerned and supportive yet, like Ashley, prefers not to discuss the issue.

But supernatural powers may run in the family. Both David's dad and Lynn's gran believed they saw spirits.

Lynn says: "Fae has tried to tell Ashley it's OK and happens to her but he doesn't believe her.

"She's intrigued by it now but he hates it and is terrified."

Through talking to other mediums, Fae has learned to cope with the sightings but Ashley is very much in denial. Instead, a friend who does distant healing - called Theta Healing - has focused on Ashley, asking that he doesn't see anything frightening. Lynn believes this has reduced the sightings but says he still has what he calls "bad thoughts".

Fae, who has learned to channel her ability into learning Reiki healing, says: "I can close down my chakras - points in the body from the head to the feet.

You do it by thinking of those points as lightbulbs and you shut them off so you are closed to the spirits. I can also ask them to go away and I can imagine a white light around me to protect myself.

"When it first started I was seeing spirits every day but now it isn't as often."

Fae adds: "I have only told one friend at school, she was fine about it and accepts it.

"But I wouldn't tell anyone else because I think they would tease me. I would be the witch girl."

Lynn and Fae plan to write a book together on their experiences. They have also launched Facebook group Children With Spirit.

Lynn says: "One of my issues is that there's no real help out there for people like us.

"Talking to other psychic children has really helped Fae, so hopefully it can help others too."

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[Malogg Profile]

That reminds me im out of spirits needs to go get some scotch today

[Mumin Profile]

[Minihaha Profile]

All you can hope for is that the kids learn how to deal. I would assume that it would be better to know that they are there, then be sensitive to them and not see them, or I could be completely wrong.

[Nihilgeist Profile]

My children see dead people

Names have been changed

I was gonna say, naming your son Ashley is enough to make the poor kid have pyschological problems in and of itself.

On another note, the Grandfather's not much of a "guide" if he's just a floating red head on their shoulders while they get poked and prodded by druggy spirits and mentally disordered spirits.

I wonder if they're aware of creeping out small children? Do they care? I'm gonna go ballistic when I'm a lost soul, unless of course I have no clue what I'm doing and it's like a dream-like state of wandering around with your sub-conscious guiding you.

[Concretev3 Profile]

Hmm...

Maybe you should have said.

Crazy lady thinks her kids see dead people.

Not. My children etc

[Thebluecanary Profile]

No, nihilgeist, they don't care that they are "creeping out" the little children. I think most of the time the attention and the "creeping out" is what they want most.

I guess that the kids will either learn to cope and set boundaries or they won't. And if they don't, I expect it will be very hard on them.

Also, Ashley was a man's name before it became a girls name.

[Sevenofnine Profile]

@O.P.

This reminds me of a few storys ive heard over the last few years where people see more than the average person, my thoughts are how is this happening, we all process light through our eyes but all have different software to decode this, our brains, there was a Russian women that could see through people like a xray and helps people, that was proved to be real, was that the lens/eye or the brain/software?

All frequency's the whole spectrum of light is available, we are limited by the lens/eye i thought, or is it the brain/software?

Light or the perception of light would seem a lot more complicated than perception of sound waves,given this the more complicated a system is, the more problems or abnormally s could arise,back to the op, could also be attention seeking,not saying it is just looking at this with my analytical brain.

[Mumin Profile]

No, nihilgeist, they don't care that they are "creeping out" the little children. I think most of the time the attention and the "creeping out" is what they want most.

I guess that the kids will either learn to cope and set boundaries or they won't. And if they don't, I expect it will be very hard on them.

Also, Ashley was a man's name before it became a girls name.

the little girl's name in my "i see dead people" image up there is ASHLEY Olson.
I thought it was pretty smart to put that picture up there, but somehow nobody seems to notice

[Thebluecanary Profile]

No, nihilgeist, they don't care that they are "creeping out" the little children. I think most of the time the attention and the "creeping out" is what they want most.

I guess that the kids will either learn to cope and set boundaries or they won't. And if they don't, I expect it will be very hard on them.

Also, Ashley was a man's name before it became a girls name.

the little girl's name in my "i see dead people" image up there is ASHLEY Olson.
I thought it was pretty smart to put that picture up there, but somehow nobody seems to notice

LMAO Mumin...I didn't even catch it! I thought it was Mary Kate!