sexualsation of young girls and the parents with no brains
Sun Jul 29, 2012 9:36 pm » by 99socks
Noentry wrote:Gents great reply's
Truthseeker2k11 man you talk some shit, you went of track completely.
I am talking about children how the fuck did you think of Japanese porn FFS
You really are a dumb ass.
I am surprised none of the female members responded perhaps they agree with the sexualisation of 14 year old girls.
lol and thanks for not crucifying me for spelling sexualisation not once but wrong twice
Actually, I disagree with the repression of the fact that everyone, of every age, is naturally a sexual being, and that socially inappropriate and rebellious behavior and dress is the only way a large portion of our population can get any sort of acknowledgement of their natural human nature. I think it's sad that what is a part of them from birth somehow has to get turned into a "right of passage" because we (adults and parents) can't be bothered to create a simple and meaningful "coming of age" ritual for them. I think it's sad that because we can't even do this for them, children go out and seek approval from other children concerning their own personal value instead of understanding and being confident in their own acceptance and love at home. And then have no clue as to the disrespect they bring upon themselves.
Would I let my daughter dress like that? No. But if she doesn't like "socially acceptable" clothes, then she can go naked.
"And don't mind the "harshness" of some people. It's all an act. The meaner the posts, the cuddlier they are in person." -Poooooot
Sun Jul 29, 2012 9:41 pm » by Noentry
99socks thanks for the input, well said
"The third-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the majority.
The second-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the minority.
The first-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking."
A. A. Milne
The second-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the minority.
The first-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking."
A. A. Milne
Sun Jul 29, 2012 11:12 pm » by Noentry
Sex in the media aimed at teens encourages promiscuity
Published on April 4, 2006
According to a new study teenagers between the ages of 12 and 14 who use media with high sexual content are up to 2.2 times more likely to have sex by the time they are 16 than those who use less of such media.
It seems sexually charged music, magazines, TV and movies encourages youngsters into sex at an earlier age, possibly by suggesting that everyone else is doing it.
Lead author of the report, Jane Brown of the University of North Carolina, at Chapel Hill, says the study is the first to show that the more kids are exposed to sex in media the earlier they have sex.
The researchers surveyed 1,017 black and white teens when they were 12 to 14 years old and again two years later, asking them about their use of four different kinds of media and their sexual behavior.
The adolescents were from North Carolina's Durham, Orange and Granville counties.
The research team also analyzed the sexual content in 308 different television shows, movies, songs and magazines used regularly by the teens and then calculated a measure of each teen's "sexual media diet."
They found that white teens in the study who had a high sexual media diet when they were 12 to 14 years old were more than twice as likely as those with less exposure to sex in the media to have had sexual intercourse two years later.
The relationship was not as strong for black teens as it was for whites.
Brown a professor of Journalism and Mass Communication, says teenagers are looking to the media for sexual information because they are not getting such information in other places, and the media is not the best sex educator as the crucial three C's: commitment, contraception and consequences are usually absent.
Previous research has been limited to television, but this study looked at teens exposure to movies, TV shows, music and magazines, which were all analysed for their sexual content.
Brown and her colleagues found that one of the strongest protective factors against early sexual behavior was clear parental communication about sex.
White teens who reported that their parents did not approve of them having sex at this age were less likely to have engaged in pre-coital sexual behavior.
Both black and white youth who reported their parents did not want them to have sex were less likely to have engaged in sexual intercourse by the time they were 16 years old than those who perceived less parent disapproval of teen sex.
Brown said the media, schools, parents and pediatricians need to provide more accurate and timely sexual information to teens, otherwise, the media will continue to serve as a kind of sexual super peer that doesn't have the best interests of young people in mind.
As she says, it took many studies over a number of years to establish that violence in the media increased children's violent behaviour and to begin initiatives to reduce harmful effects.
Therefore, the researchers say, it may be prudent not to wait decades to conclude that the media are also important sources of sexual norms for youth.
The study was published in the April issue of Pediatrics, the journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics.
http://www.news-medical.net/news/2006/04/04/17112.aspx
Published on April 4, 2006
According to a new study teenagers between the ages of 12 and 14 who use media with high sexual content are up to 2.2 times more likely to have sex by the time they are 16 than those who use less of such media.
It seems sexually charged music, magazines, TV and movies encourages youngsters into sex at an earlier age, possibly by suggesting that everyone else is doing it.
Lead author of the report, Jane Brown of the University of North Carolina, at Chapel Hill, says the study is the first to show that the more kids are exposed to sex in media the earlier they have sex.
The researchers surveyed 1,017 black and white teens when they were 12 to 14 years old and again two years later, asking them about their use of four different kinds of media and their sexual behavior.
The adolescents were from North Carolina's Durham, Orange and Granville counties.
The research team also analyzed the sexual content in 308 different television shows, movies, songs and magazines used regularly by the teens and then calculated a measure of each teen's "sexual media diet."
They found that white teens in the study who had a high sexual media diet when they were 12 to 14 years old were more than twice as likely as those with less exposure to sex in the media to have had sexual intercourse two years later.
The relationship was not as strong for black teens as it was for whites.
Brown a professor of Journalism and Mass Communication, says teenagers are looking to the media for sexual information because they are not getting such information in other places, and the media is not the best sex educator as the crucial three C's: commitment, contraception and consequences are usually absent.
Previous research has been limited to television, but this study looked at teens exposure to movies, TV shows, music and magazines, which were all analysed for their sexual content.
Brown and her colleagues found that one of the strongest protective factors against early sexual behavior was clear parental communication about sex.
White teens who reported that their parents did not approve of them having sex at this age were less likely to have engaged in pre-coital sexual behavior.
Both black and white youth who reported their parents did not want them to have sex were less likely to have engaged in sexual intercourse by the time they were 16 years old than those who perceived less parent disapproval of teen sex.
Brown said the media, schools, parents and pediatricians need to provide more accurate and timely sexual information to teens, otherwise, the media will continue to serve as a kind of sexual super peer that doesn't have the best interests of young people in mind.
As she says, it took many studies over a number of years to establish that violence in the media increased children's violent behaviour and to begin initiatives to reduce harmful effects.
Therefore, the researchers say, it may be prudent not to wait decades to conclude that the media are also important sources of sexual norms for youth.
The study was published in the April issue of Pediatrics, the journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics.
http://www.news-medical.net/news/2006/04/04/17112.aspx
"The third-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the majority.
The second-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the minority.
The first-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking."
A. A. Milne
The second-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the minority.
The first-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking."
A. A. Milne
Sun Jul 29, 2012 11:24 pm » by Teloc
16 year old girls have sex with over 100 years olds..
and everyone thinks it is romantic... (twilight)
fat housewives sell their sado maso fantasies as ebooks big time.. and ze media hypes zis shit like there is no tomorrow..
they just dont f care for our kids.. whutever they SAY.. they DONT DO IT...
ze dark is NOT romantic... ze devil and his demons want to destroy ur soul!
fuck!
fucking morans!!
and everyone thinks it is romantic... (twilight)
fat housewives sell their sado maso fantasies as ebooks big time.. and ze media hypes zis shit like there is no tomorrow..
they just dont f care for our kids.. whutever they SAY.. they DONT DO IT...
ze dark is NOT romantic... ze devil and his demons want to destroy ur soul!
fuck!
fucking morans!!
Er ist nicht hier, er ist auferstanden.
Sun Jul 29, 2012 11:39 pm » by Noentry
Teloc wrote:16 year old girls have sex with over 100 years olds..
and everyone thinks it is romantic... (twilight)
fat housewives sell their sado maso fantasies as ebooks big time.. and ze media hypes zis shit like there is no tomorrow..
they just dont f care for our kids.. whutever they SAY.. they DONT DO IT...
ze dark is NOT romantic... ze devil and his demons want to destroy ur soul!
fuck!
fucking morans!!
I find that show quite disturbing too Teloc not just 100 year olds but murderous, immortal, evil, maniacs who kill and eat humans, drink their blood.
That shit aint right, It should have an 18 water shed but it is aimed at young teens.
And the way young girls and their mothers have been sucked into the show is an example of how far we have fallen from grace, and with the popularity it has at the moment it is is wrong on many levels, it is glorifying evil pure and simple.
But saying that, the original the Bram Stroker Dracular was a love story for adults
It was with a woman not a child so not the same as Twilight.
What happened to the days of they are an abomination?
It is what they are.
"The third-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the majority.
The second-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the minority.
The first-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking."
A. A. Milne
The second-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the minority.
The first-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking."
A. A. Milne
Mon Jul 30, 2012 2:27 am » by Noentry
Sex in the Media: A New Study Finds Troubling Links to Teens
I allow my eight-year-old son to play a virtual world online game because it satisfies his sense of adventure (medieval style!) and it requires him to problem solve -- to figure out how to turn wheat into bread, say, or to determine what sorts of metals are required to make a hatchet. And yet the game bothers me. The iconography is very sexualized: the women who lure players into the games often sport lusty cleavage; many avatars are dressed like wenches.
This is not unusual, says the American Association of Pediatrics in a policy statement issued this week, and it should, indeed, worry parents. "New evidence points to the media adolescents use frequently (television, music, movies, magazines, and the Internet) as important factors in the initiation of sexual intercourse," notes the statement. "There is a major disconnect between what mainstream media portray -- casual sex and sexuality with no consequences -- and what children and teenagers need."
What they need, says the report, is not abstinence-only education -- the kids are ignoring that with the help of a surfeit of sexualized images and scenarios easily available online and off. A 2009 Youth Risk Behavior Survey found that 46% of high school seniors have had sex, and about one in six have had sex with four or more partners. Worse, of the sexually active students, 39% said they did not use a condom during their last sexual encounter. It follows, then, that those sexually active seniors need education about the consequences of teen sex. And they need protection.
There are other eye-opening numbers. The United States has the highest teen pregnancy rate in the Western world. More concerning is the risky, and often coerced, behavior of young teens. A quarter of teenagers have had a sexually transmitted infection; one in ten girls who have had teen sex say that the first time was against their will. And despite representing just 25% of the sexually active population in the United States, 15- to 24-year-olds contract nearly half of all new STIs every year.
Don't expect television and gaming producers to change their products any time soon. Some estimates have the video game industry topping $20 billion in 2010. It would take some serious regulatory muscle to slow that economic engine down.
http://www.dailyfinance.com/2010/09/04/ ... -to-teens/
I allow my eight-year-old son to play a virtual world online game because it satisfies his sense of adventure (medieval style!) and it requires him to problem solve -- to figure out how to turn wheat into bread, say, or to determine what sorts of metals are required to make a hatchet. And yet the game bothers me. The iconography is very sexualized: the women who lure players into the games often sport lusty cleavage; many avatars are dressed like wenches.
This is not unusual, says the American Association of Pediatrics in a policy statement issued this week, and it should, indeed, worry parents. "New evidence points to the media adolescents use frequently (television, music, movies, magazines, and the Internet) as important factors in the initiation of sexual intercourse," notes the statement. "There is a major disconnect between what mainstream media portray -- casual sex and sexuality with no consequences -- and what children and teenagers need."
What they need, says the report, is not abstinence-only education -- the kids are ignoring that with the help of a surfeit of sexualized images and scenarios easily available online and off. A 2009 Youth Risk Behavior Survey found that 46% of high school seniors have had sex, and about one in six have had sex with four or more partners. Worse, of the sexually active students, 39% said they did not use a condom during their last sexual encounter. It follows, then, that those sexually active seniors need education about the consequences of teen sex. And they need protection.
There are other eye-opening numbers. The United States has the highest teen pregnancy rate in the Western world. More concerning is the risky, and often coerced, behavior of young teens. A quarter of teenagers have had a sexually transmitted infection; one in ten girls who have had teen sex say that the first time was against their will. And despite representing just 25% of the sexually active population in the United States, 15- to 24-year-olds contract nearly half of all new STIs every year.
Don't expect television and gaming producers to change their products any time soon. Some estimates have the video game industry topping $20 billion in 2010. It would take some serious regulatory muscle to slow that economic engine down.
http://www.dailyfinance.com/2010/09/04/ ... -to-teens/
"The third-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the majority.
The second-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the minority.
The first-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking."
A. A. Milne
The second-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the minority.
The first-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking."
A. A. Milne
Mon Jul 30, 2012 11:58 am » by Iwanci
Why do people blame the media, blame the parents, blame the children etc?
There is NO blame, what you see are repercussions of a society that we have ALL built through our various wants. The media reports news stories that get interest, interest is gauged in terms of sales or views (how many times something has been watched), the public demand stories that cause outrage and the media replies.
Advertising is likewise driven by ‘sales’, sales are a function of addressing peoples ‘wants’, so what do you or how do you sell something? By giving in to peoples (consumers) desires. So if people buy more by seeing scantily dressed women, it will be promoted. This is true at all ages. McDonalds promotes what to who? Great nutritious food promoted to adults? Nope, junk food promoted to children. The concepts are the same.
So then, what we see in society is sadly a function of what the majority of people are demanding. What do we do?
As parents it is about time that you stop playing the blame game, blaming can often lead to submission. It is time that parents understood that when they elect to have children, they MUST assume the role of a parent, and that means fighting the fight to retain your child’s interest in the family unit and to ensure your child understands and takes guidance from those who know best, the parent. This is a struggle (I know from experience) but it is a fight well worth the fight. Parents must put their children first and dedicate most of their time to them, the notion that children do not need to upset or cramp your lifestyle is complete bullshit. Children spoil and cramp your lifestyle, if you want to live an uninterrupted life, don’t have children.
I have had many a tough and angry argument with my children, many feelings have been hurt, and many a tear shed. If done correctly these ‘typical’ issues will serve to make your relationship stronger. These fights are well worth the effort, and YOU must lead by example. I am prepared to drop everything for my children, they know and they RESPECT my sacrifices. Do they always listen to me? No. Do they always agree with me? No. Do we have magnitude 9 arguments? Yes. Are they duplicates of me? NO, we are all uniquely different.
I have my say, sometimes they listen, sometimes they don’t.. but they almost always ask for guidance and almost certainly weigh up the options. I have taught them to be the trend setters not the followers, it is ok to go against the grain, it takes courage to be different and shows great character. The easy road is not always the best road and you must respect everyone for their individuality.
Anyhow, I wish you all great success with your children, at the end of the day they are all that matters and almost certainly the only ones whom will ever remember your legacy long after you pass away, if that’s not worth the effort, nothing is.
There is NO blame, what you see are repercussions of a society that we have ALL built through our various wants. The media reports news stories that get interest, interest is gauged in terms of sales or views (how many times something has been watched), the public demand stories that cause outrage and the media replies.
Advertising is likewise driven by ‘sales’, sales are a function of addressing peoples ‘wants’, so what do you or how do you sell something? By giving in to peoples (consumers) desires. So if people buy more by seeing scantily dressed women, it will be promoted. This is true at all ages. McDonalds promotes what to who? Great nutritious food promoted to adults? Nope, junk food promoted to children. The concepts are the same.
So then, what we see in society is sadly a function of what the majority of people are demanding. What do we do?
As parents it is about time that you stop playing the blame game, blaming can often lead to submission. It is time that parents understood that when they elect to have children, they MUST assume the role of a parent, and that means fighting the fight to retain your child’s interest in the family unit and to ensure your child understands and takes guidance from those who know best, the parent. This is a struggle (I know from experience) but it is a fight well worth the fight. Parents must put their children first and dedicate most of their time to them, the notion that children do not need to upset or cramp your lifestyle is complete bullshit. Children spoil and cramp your lifestyle, if you want to live an uninterrupted life, don’t have children.
I have had many a tough and angry argument with my children, many feelings have been hurt, and many a tear shed. If done correctly these ‘typical’ issues will serve to make your relationship stronger. These fights are well worth the effort, and YOU must lead by example. I am prepared to drop everything for my children, they know and they RESPECT my sacrifices. Do they always listen to me? No. Do they always agree with me? No. Do we have magnitude 9 arguments? Yes. Are they duplicates of me? NO, we are all uniquely different.
I have my say, sometimes they listen, sometimes they don’t.. but they almost always ask for guidance and almost certainly weigh up the options. I have taught them to be the trend setters not the followers, it is ok to go against the grain, it takes courage to be different and shows great character. The easy road is not always the best road and you must respect everyone for their individuality.
Anyhow, I wish you all great success with your children, at the end of the day they are all that matters and almost certainly the only ones whom will ever remember your legacy long after you pass away, if that’s not worth the effort, nothing is.
Fortes fortuna iuvat
Mon Jul 30, 2012 1:13 pm » by Canubis
Noentry wrote:
I spoke to the mother of the birthday girl and there was no security or door man so I volunteered to stay and keep an eye on things, she was grateful, the evening went with out any problems or fights, they were all good kids.
AAHAHAAHA AHAHAHAHA MY GOD THATS FUNNY!!
"no security or door man" at a 14th BDAY PARTY!! omfg
trust me once they get some cash and buy there own dam cloths parents r helpless
hahaha security...
All is 1 but 1 is many, When many become 1 the All will become Greater then 1
Mon Jul 30, 2012 1:27 pm » by monica44
@ Noentry....Okay, i hear where you are coming from, and if i had a daughter i would feel the same, and yes you are right that it is down to the mothers to show their daughters about self respect. When these girls realize that looking tarty will get you attention but the wrong sort, and most men do not want to take home a tarty girl to their mothers then perhaps some of them will change.
I do however blame the media for a lot of this pressure for young girls to be attractive/pretty, they have bloody beauty parades for young girls with over the top mothers parading their daughters mostly for their own gratification, [perhaps they lacked themselves so live their lives through the offspring, men to can be guilty of this with sons but that is another story] and pressures to look good can be crippling especially when at 12-15 yr olds have raging hormones and it is natures way to prepare for mating etc. Years ago there were not laws to say age dictates when sex should take place, when girls were ready that was it, today its a different world but we have not evolved beyond sex, so it is still going to be the same in a hundred years or so, remember when the roaring 20s and short skirts came about and flappers and such like?
For any others who find themselves in this position perhaps a compromise, if girls want to make up dress up have girly nights in so they are supervised and maybe you can explain why you are protective to the rest of her friends....
just a thought...
I do however blame the media for a lot of this pressure for young girls to be attractive/pretty, they have bloody beauty parades for young girls with over the top mothers parading their daughters mostly for their own gratification, [perhaps they lacked themselves so live their lives through the offspring, men to can be guilty of this with sons but that is another story] and pressures to look good can be crippling especially when at 12-15 yr olds have raging hormones and it is natures way to prepare for mating etc. Years ago there were not laws to say age dictates when sex should take place, when girls were ready that was it, today its a different world but we have not evolved beyond sex, so it is still going to be the same in a hundred years or so, remember when the roaring 20s and short skirts came about and flappers and such like?
For any others who find themselves in this position perhaps a compromise, if girls want to make up dress up have girly nights in so they are supervised and maybe you can explain why you are protective to the rest of her friends....
just a thought...
We are not human beings on a spiritual journey, we are spiritual beings on a human journey; Stephen Covey.
Tue Jul 31, 2012 3:50 am » by Noentry
monica44 great reply and I will take your advice
Iwanci Thank you and great reply also
Canubis
lol There was a 15th party a month earlier and they had a lot of gate crashers who brought alcohol and caused trouble, that time there was a father who was taking care of the entrance. I did not stay.
Both in a hall but this time the father is a scumbag and he was now where to be seen, so I just stayed to keep the gate crashers and alcohol out. Plus I was the only man there and some of these 14-15 year old boys are quite tall and could be intimidating to the woman
But I can see why you would find my statement funny, did'nt you mention once you worked on the doors?
Iwanci Thank you and great reply also
Canubis
lol There was a 15th party a month earlier and they had a lot of gate crashers who brought alcohol and caused trouble, that time there was a father who was taking care of the entrance. I did not stay.
Both in a hall but this time the father is a scumbag and he was now where to be seen, so I just stayed to keep the gate crashers and alcohol out. Plus I was the only man there and some of these 14-15 year old boys are quite tall and could be intimidating to the woman
But I can see why you would find my statement funny, did'nt you mention once you worked on the doors?
"The third-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the majority.
The second-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the minority.
The first-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking."
A. A. Milne
The second-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the minority.
The first-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking."
A. A. Milne
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