sexualsation of young girls and the parents with no brains

[Seriouscitizen Profile]

I haven't seen anyone yet who is perfect. Yet.

As powerstructures collapse. And the mastery of love is unvolded. We can become aware, open and masters of our feelings and potential

I have posted this already but i wanted to bring some attention to it again, for it resonates with this topic and with our state of mind and behaviour. Especially in this forum an in interaction with fellow people.

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I'm not perfect. I want to be tho and that is what determines my actions and opportunities thrown at me.

[Noentry Profile]

[quote="Samuelthemule"]just wanted to let you know i really really enjoyed your reply noentry.
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Glad you liked it

I would like to say to you there is a difference between analyzing and judging.

You can analyze without judging

[Noentry Profile]

I haven't seen anyone yet who is perfect. Yet.

As powerstructures collapse. And the mastery of love is unvolded. We can become aware, open and masters of our feelings and potential

I have posted this already but i wanted to bring some attention to it again, for it resonates with this topic and with our state of mind and behaviour. Especially in this forum an in interaction with fellow people.

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I'm not perfect. I want to be tho and that is what determines my actions and opportunities thrown at me.

excellent well said

[Samuelthemule Profile Website]

you all

shining your light here



thank you


let's master love and let it turn us into masters, in our own unique and individual ways.

let us see divinity unfolding all around, and in one another.

let it be so



that's my prayer

namaste

in lak ech

aum

omm

in christ's name

in shalah

amen

and so on...

[99socks Profile]

This topic is getting very, very dry. I have said it over and over. If you can't understand the difference between your personal life vs. your public life, or vulnerability in intimacy vs. vulnerability in practicality... and continue to make decisions that are the complete opposite of what are in your own best interest on either issue, then... ?

I will continue to stand for my belief that if you place your bed on your front lawn (making your private life public) while being confused in your own sexuality but claiming your actions are products of a "healthy vulnerability in intimacy" (when putting your bed in public has NO CONNECTION to the quality of your actual intimacy- at all- but instead is an attention-seeking facade), then don't be surprised if/when weird things come back to you.

Here I am, the broken record....

I have no issues whatsoever with "who" SC is, or where she is in her sexuality or anything- AT ALL.

My issue, as it has been stated over and over, is the complete lack of maturity, class, and common sense with regards to airing her (and NEM too) personal love life over a conspiracy forum filled with strangers. While many of us may be virtual friends- even serious virtual friends- the fact remains, publically oozing all over each other while making naive bragging statements of "love forever" reminiscent of the babblings of a 12-year old and his/her first crush is not only distasteful, but really, really stupid. Becoming vulnerable? To your lover that's a good thing. To 64,000 internet strangers (some of who would get a kick out of hacking your emails and watching you two on Skype cam, maybe even keeping pics as souvenirs and later blackmail material), it's beyond retarded... nevermind having to explain 'what went wrong' if/when things don't turn out with a fairytale ending. This isn't freshman English class, and we are not your dorm mates; this is the internet. Neither of you (NEM and SC) seem to understand the difference. Again, this is an excusable mentality for teenagers, but baffling for a 29-year old and a 30-something year old mother.

And I will admit at this point too (only because it's now been stated), the attitude of putting yourself out publically (SC) and taking everything personally while relishing the martyrdom that *may* occur when people tell you how ridiculous your behavior is, qualifies you for services with a mental health professional. Most girls grow out of this kind of simple manupulation tactic by the time they are 16. Most men recognize the pattern by the time they are 20 and know to run far, far away from it. For whatever reason, NEM at age 29 and with people spelling it out for him, can't be helped in this regard.

[Seriouscitizen Profile]

This topic is getting very, very dry. I have said it over and over. If you can't understand the difference between your personal life vs. your public life, or vulnerability in intimacy vs. vulnerability in practicality... and continue to make decisions that are the complete opposite of what are in your own best interest on either issue, then... ?

I will continue to stand for my belief that if you place your bed on your front lawn (making your private life public) while being confused in your own sexuality but claiming your actions are products of a "healthy vulnerability in intimacy" (when putting your bed in public has NO CONNECTION to the quality of your actual intimacy- at all- but instead is an attention-seeking facade), then don't be surprised if/when weird things come back to you.

Here I am, the broken record....

I have no issues whatsoever with "who" SC is, or where she is in her sexuality or anything- AT ALL.

My issue, as it has been stated over and over, is the complete lack of maturity, class, and common sense with regards to airing her (and NEM too) personal love life over a conspiracy forum filled with strangers. While many of us may be virtual friends- even serious virtual friends- the fact remains, publically oozing all over each other while making naive bragging statements of "love forever" reminiscent of the babblings of a 12-year old and his/her first crush is not only distasteful, but really, really stupid. Becoming vulnerable? To your lover that's a good thing. To 64,000 internet strangers (some of who would get a kick out of hacking your emails and watching you two on Skype cam, maybe even keeping pics as souvenirs and later blackmail material), it's beyond retarded... nevermind having to explain 'what went wrong' if/when things don't turn out with a fairytale ending. This isn't freshman English class, and we are not your dorm mates; this is the internet. Neither of you (NEM and SC) seem to understand the difference. Again, this is an excusable mentality for teenagers, but baffling for a 29-year old and a 30-something year old mother.

And I will admit at this point too (only because it's now been stated), the attitude of putting yourself out publically (SC) and taking everything personally while relishing the martyrdom that *may* occur when people tell you how ridiculous your behavior is, qualifies you for services with a mental health professional. Most girls grow out of this kind of simple manupulation tactic by the time they are 16. Most men recognize the pattern by the time they are 20 and know to run far, far away from it. For whatever reason, NEM at age 29 and with people spelling it out for him, can't be helped in this regard.

haha another broken record;

Here is one to:

i would like to teach my daughter about sexuality by teaching myself first. How could i honestly help or pretect her if i would be confused?Tho I am not at the moment,. it is a demon coming back and forth in the mind and hearth seeking balance.

I was giving an example on how confusion is way of saying that we (as in general people) have still things to learn about it. And i feel that sexuality has its demons,. as i said in another post on this thread, that is ignored, Demons as in unbalance because of the sexual evolution, pains and horrors it has been trough in extremes in the past (remember middle ages, witchhunts, forced celibacy etc.)

I think we are still dealing with that (reincarnated) and that is what it makes us uncomfy and unbalanced about it. In general.

I have said on my celibacy thread that i feel naturally celibate and i have also said that if i find true/real love sex is a thing that becomes making love and different. I also really like Sam his imput on it with the video's he posted on another thread. Orgasm vs ejaculation.

Because sex is kept in the dark and us ADULTS (IN GENERAL) act like we know everthing like there is no such thing as enlightenment, hidden knowledge, karmaa etc. Learning isn't gonna stop when you are 16 you know. At least with me its a never ending story a spiral and i am glad it is like that.

Just as anything unhealthy it is often because a lack of balance,. ph balance, balance feelings/thoughts.. And go on and on. Sex is also balancing things out in the mind and heart, in the body. It is all that and to balance you have to experiment,. try,. learn.

And to learn new things you need to step out of you comfortzone..
And that could be asking things or be OPEN. How are you going to learn thats outside of yourself if you ignore the unsolved issues inside of yourself. What is inside and what is outside is the same.
By looking at others you learn about yourself... What filters do you have on?

[99socks Profile]

It's obvious we are talking about two completely different things.

[Noentry Profile]

:flop:

you all

shining your light here



thank you


let's master love and let it turn us into masters, in our own unique and individual ways.

let us see divinity unfolding all around, and in one another.

let it be so



that's my prayer

namaste

in lak ech

aum

omm

in christ's name

in shalah

amen

and so on...

sam a most bodacious post

[WillEase666 Profile]

Teen Suicides Rocket in Delaware

Several communities in Delaware are crying out for help after a rash of teen suicides have horrified community leaders and school officials. Eleven young people killed themselves in the first four months of this year and 116 others attempted to take their lives.

The U.S. Centers for Disease Control (cdc) was called upon to investigate the cause of this dramatic rise in suicides in Kent and Sussex counties in southern Delaware.

One of the disturbing aspects of the suicides is the fact that three teenagers from Polytech High School located in Woodside killed themselves within two months of each other. Two of the students who were friends committed suicide within the same week. As part of its investigation, the cdc was asked to search out if there was a link among the deaths of the three students.

Delaware Online said that a 28-page report on the deaths released August 10 stated that “those dead youths, all between the ages of 13 and 21, had at least two significant risk factors, such as trouble in school, or troubled relationships. Most had five or more, with mental problems the most frequently cited.”
http://www.delawareonline.com/article/2 ... ck_check=1

Investigators did not find a “contagion” link in the deaths. This means that investigators could not prove that the suicide of one person led to an increase in suicidal behavior among others.

Seven of the 11 fatal cases were males. Eight of the 11 were in the 16-to-18 age group. Most of the 11 died by hanging. The others died by gunshot wounds. Dr. Alex Crosby, medical epidemiologist with the cdc, said that statistically, he’d expect to see seven suicides in this age group throughout the entire state in a year. So, 11 suicides in four months is shocking.

Considering there were an additional 116 attempted suicides during this same period, Delaware health officials are concerned. Community action plans are being prepared to short-circuit the rise in teen suicides. Jim Lafferty, director of the Mental Health Association in Delaware, is one of the state’s officials who sought the assistance of the cdc. He stated to Delaware Online, “Having a better understanding of the pieces of the puzzle is helpful. Certainly these deaths affect not just individual families but the entire community, and I think the idea of suicide prevention has to become a community effort. Parents should be aware of things like depression and things to look for.”

Of course teen suicide should be a concern for every community. However, the last part of Mr. Lafferty’s quote should carry more weight. Parents must shoulder the majority of the responsibility to prevent teen suicide.

One risk factor listed as a cause for teen suicide is “recent conflict with parent.” When the truth is told, parental conflict is the most important factor in teen suicide. The majority of teens today suffer horribly from parental neglect, which creates great conflict between parents and teens.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... alone.html

Many teens are unloved and unwanted. Often teens receive little parental advice and have to fend for themselves. Other suicide risk factors such as depression, legal problems, problems with boyfriends or girlfriends, substance abuse or academic problems all contribute to teen suicide, but are not as problematic as parental-teen relationships.

There is a way to save our troubled teens. Be sure to read our article “Taking Time to Save Our Teens.” It offers concrete, successful solutions to help our endangered youth.
https://www.thetrumpet.com/article/3833 ... -our-teens

[Noentry Profile]

will

Children under a lot of pressure?

116 attempted suicides during that period

that is a big number.