The Problem is You, is Us

Tue Dec 04, 2012 11:44 pm » by **Cornbread714**

Seriouscitizen wrote:
Cornbread714 wrote:
Seriouscitizen wrote:
Dont assume that i don't work on myself

I want more hugs, i love you

Sure

Thanks for proving my point. :alien51:

Tue Dec 04, 2012 11:55 pm » by **The57ironman**

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.....kids..................they say the darndest things..... :lol:

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Tue Dec 04, 2012 11:58 pm » by **fatbastard2.0**

You two should book a hotel room. Merry Xmas.

Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:02 am » by **Cornbread714**

fatbastard2.0 wrote:You two should book a hotel room. Merry Xmas.

I don't want to break any hearts. :alien51:

Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:03 am » by **Kaarmaa**

I'm jealous!

And you know it.

Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:12 am » by **Seriouscitizen**

Cornbread714 wrote:
fatbastard2.0 wrote:You two should book a hotel room. Merry Xmas.

I don't want to break any hearts.

On a serious note CB,. If you don't share what you think or what you feel yourself, there isn't a logical background for reffering to someones others worldview as narrow or anything else. It is so easy to call someone else out that speaks her mind just to try and relate and see where there is resonance, and critisze her for doing so, but not actually adressing her feelings on wich she based her worldview on, besides telling me that you don't feel that way in general.

You can only compare your wordview to that of others based on your experiences am i correct?
Unless you are psychic ofcoarse.,

We can only know if something is going on if one is provoced enough to step out it seems, based on your comment on this thread. And this is the exact thing that im adressing in my OP. To appoint our feelings and thoughts so we can let people learn from it. Even if they are 'wrong'/conditioned.

So ofcoarse i am young,. and perhaps some of you assume that equals inexperienced. My goal is not to convert you to my wisdom. It is to learn and connect by opening up and put myself in 'vulnerability'. That is what this whole thread is about.

To get rid of seperateness

Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:13 am » by **Cornbread714**

Kaarmaa wrote:I'm jealous!

And you know it.

Don't fret, ladies - there's plenty of Cornbread to go around... :alien51:

Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:18 am » by **Cornbread714**

Seriouscitizen wrote:\

On a serious note CB,. If you don't share what you think or what you feel yourself, that isn't a logical background for reffering to someones others worldview as narrow or anything else without relation to yourself. It is so easy to call someone else out that speaks her mind just to try and relate and see where there is resonance, and critisze her for doing so but not actually adressing her feelings on wich she based her worldview on, besides telling me that you don't feel that way in general.

You can only compare your wordview to that of others based on your experiences am i correct?
Unless you are psychic ofcoarse.,

We can only know if something is going on if one is provoced enough to step out it seems, based on your comment on this thread. And this is the exact thing that im adressing in my OP. To appoint our feelings and thoughts so we can let people learn from it. Even if they are 'wrong'/conditioned.

So ofcoarse i am young,. and perhaps some of you assume that means inexperienced. My goal is not to convert you to my wisdom. It is to learn and connect by opening up and put myself in 'vulnerability'

To get rid of seperateness

Serious reply:

I'm sure you mean well. Maybe it's just the way you put things that I find somewhat annoying.

And no big problem - I'm sure there are at least a few who find my way of putting things highly annoying as well.

Right, gang?

Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:19 am » by **The57ironman**

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Seriouscitizen wrote: My goal is not to convert you to my wisdom. It is to learn and connect by opening up and put myself in 'vulnerability'. That is what this whole thread is about.

To get rid of seperateness

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...she's just looking to find herself and using the forum for feedback.....

..............who said that..?... :peep:

Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:22 am » by **Seriouscitizen**

Cornbread714 wrote:
Seriouscitizen wrote:\

On a serious note CB,. If you don't share what you think or what you feel yourself, that isn't a logical background for reffering to someones others worldview as narrow or anything else without relation to yourself. It is so easy to call someone else out that speaks her mind just to try and relate and see where there is resonance, and critisze her for doing so but not actually adressing her feelings on wich she based her worldview on, besides telling me that you don't feel that way in general.

You can only compare your wordview to that of others based on your experiences am i correct?
Unless you are psychic ofcoarse.,

We can only know if something is going on if one is provoced enough to step out it seems, based on your comment on this thread. And this is the exact thing that im adressing in my OP. To appoint our feelings and thoughts so we can let people learn from it. Even if they are 'wrong'/conditioned.

So ofcoarse i am young,. and perhaps some of you assume that means inexperienced. My goal is not to convert you to my wisdom. It is to learn and connect by opening up and put myself in 'vulnerability'

To get rid of seperateness

Serious reply:

I'm sure you mean well. Maybe it's just the way you put things that I find somewhat annoying.

And no big problem -You know i love you.

You knoooow

I know