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PostMon Sep 10, 2012 3:01 pm » by Troll2rocks


Seriouscitizen wrote:
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Seriouscitizen wrote:You weirdo's, Honestly you probably had so much obsessed woman chasin you in the past that you forget the possibility that one maybe REALLY just wants to be on her own for some time. Hmm?

I am a terrible actor and liar so i choose to be straight forward when i can. Yes people can love other people without wanting to be in a relationship. And in my case i have so much love that i can't walk the street without having crushes three times a minute. Including here on the internet.
ANd this aint helping. Im LMAO. NEM i love. Because we had/have a connection, shared ideals and romantics. But i do belive in "the one" and if im delusional i still have enough time to find that out. Anyway if there isn't the one than i have enough choices te end with right?
All this love,. I have some butterflies obviously for NEM, for Otoel, for you Troll, for Sam, 1ufo even some for Socks (one or so ;)).
I don't see these buterflies as a representation of the potential for a love relationship. Its connections or warm feelings i have because i see the beauty in someone. Great characteristics. I see potential as humans connections I take this spiritual shit, yes my poo is spiritual too, really serious you know! Enlightenment, oneness.


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That came out a bit wrong and open for crazy people interpretation.

You meet a few special people in your life that actually change you life. And they know it :hugging:



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PostMon Sep 10, 2012 3:39 pm » by Fatdogmendoza


Seriouscitizen wrote:You weirdo's, Honestly you probably had so much obsessed woman chasin you in the past that you forget the possibility that one maybe REALLY just wants to be on her own for some time. Hmm?

I am a terrible actor and liar so i choose to be straight forward when i can. Yes people can love other people without wanting to be in a relationship. And in my case i have so much love that i can't walk the street without having crushes three times a minute. Including here on the internet.
ANd this aint helping. Im LMAO. NEM i love. Because we had/have a connection, shared ideals and romantics. But i do belive in "the one" and if im delusional i still have enough time to find that out. Anyway if there isn't the one than i have enough choices te end with right?
All this love,. I have some butterflies obviously for NEM, for Otoel, for you Troll, for Sam, 1ufo even some for Socks (one or so ;)).
I don't see these buterflies as a representation of the potential for a love relationship. Its connections or warm feelings i have because i see the beauty in someone. Great characteristics. I see potential as humans connections I take this spiritual shit, yes my poo is spiritual too, really serious you know! Enlightenment, oneness.



OMG....Serious you missed me out....is it cos I is olde.... :cry:
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PostMon Sep 10, 2012 3:42 pm » by Spock


At least it good to know she's got enough love to fly both ways. Ads that much needed dimension to the upcoming porn.

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PostMon Sep 10, 2012 3:45 pm » by Lowsix


Troll2rocks wrote:@NEM, perhaps a reading between the lines is warranted.


This is the only correct things hes said to you in all of his posts combined..

I can read enough 'between the lines" to tell you
that the rest of his advice is absolutely 100% incorrect for your situation.

What she is saying between those lines..is clear.
And to her credit, What she has said here as well as while you were there..
is likely to protect your feelings. Give her some credit for that.

And if you insist on taking his advice, you are being led down the road
to disappointment and embarassment. Public embarrassment.
I dont want to see anyone get hurt anymore than i want to see
someone put under pressure to hurt someone.
And that is what this thread has become...or is becoming.

Pressure on SeriousCitizen.
We have put HER in an awkward situation too..
(some of that is her own fault however..if (and only if) she encouraged you, while not really having those feelings, or the capacity for them.) Only YOU two know if she over-encouraged you or not.

If spending THAT kind of money to go see someone halfway across the godamn globe for a first date, is not EXPLICIT enough, and all those love letters you have written are not enough to garner more commitment to your ideal than what she is expressing (probably both publically and privately), .then let me tell you, you are barking up the wrong tree. Dutch women, and this one in particular, are not particularly sentimental, and romantic for it's own sake. They are protected, and cynical, and you are the polar opposite. It fels like to me there will always be a wall in place (of her own construction) that will not allow you the total freedom, and intimacy, affection and safety you deserve.

Even in her post here, she talks of this tarot reading..and some mystery someone who is supposedly going to ride to the rescue and do something with her business (which truthfully almost made me throw up)...rather than spending the time talking about the person who DID come and try to ride to her rescue in realtime..in real life..

well..bro..listen up. Theres something being said there too. Shes telling you, that shes going to hold off on this relationship thing, to bide her time, and make some decision somewhere out there in the future, maybe hoping to see if that Tarot person will come along (godamn BARF)...

Fuck me dude..i read that like COLD ICE>

IF that is not a wall, i dont guess id recognize one
if you drove your badd ass car right the fuck into it, and burst into flames.

And, i by some odd, cosmically ironic chance that she really is your "ONE"... you are risking pushing someone away who is giving you VERY specific hints as to what she feels about you, about relationships and about love in general. At least hints about her timeframes.

This is one girl that, in this specific case, is telling you that she does NOT want to be chased.

Now godamnit...i have a lot of experience giving perfect advice that is perfectly ignored, and i have that sinking feeling that this will be the case again, but i'll just say...pursue at your own risk. She has given a library FULL of hints about what she wants, and how she feels. If you dont listen to me, at least listen to her.

Troll is absolutely dead wrong when he says that all these women want to be chased and pursued...at least in the manner he describes for THIS particular girl (now here is where I am defending HER..and not NEM). Yes there are some girls that like that, but those are the ones where the men have not been clear with their feelings. You have laid it on the line as well as any man could, and so now is where you get your godamn ears in order and hear her for what she is saying. I get the sense that yes, she does have a certain type of feeling toward you. Emphasis on "certain type".

Are those the feelings that match the intensity of yours?
That is for your GUT to decide. Not any of us.

You had your feelings printed on a Tshirt, and foam-front gimme cap..
then tattoed across your forehead, and each butt cheek,
and then you made a patch and sewed it on on your sleeve.
(on every single shirt n your closet)
Then you spent a BUTTLOAD of money for a first date.

You dont ned to chase shit.

You, Nemmie, have done your part,
and what YOU said about her was correct.
The rest really is up to her.

It sounds like..
no, i mean she IS and probably has given you the answer.

Pursuing this out in the open, with pressure..APPLIED pressure..
with videos, and whatever other nonsense troll seems like hes pushing..
Man, that is only a setup to embarrass the shit out of you AND her.

Troll has his heart on the right place, but telling you to press the chase at this stage,
, to get 'some balls'...is wildly and profoundly irresponsible, and really..that is not the right advice..
for THIS particular situation. Its really not.

And to be honest, I think that her encouraging you to spend that sort of money, when i think she already knew how she felt, and how excitable you are, is equally irresponsible as well. I stick by that.
Although i take her at her word that she does haev osme affection for you. I do.
But even in the words shes posted in THIS post..shes saying some other stuff too.
Heres where you do the balls thing..and listen. Really....fucking...listen..(and let it be ok)

You are young, smart, funny, KIND, and open...
And you deserve NOT to have to chase someone,
you deserve NOt to have to "be Epic"...anymore so than youve done.

You sir, win the EPIC GODAMN AWARD,

Flying across the WORLD to back up, with actions, how you feel. You, again i say..have done your part. And any woman that cannot appreciate the profoundly romantic, wheel-hits-the-road, manning-the-fuck-up gesture for what it is, will never appreciate all the love you have to offer.

I promise you with every ounce of sincerity i can muster..

Listen to her feedback and act appropriately.
Dont make any 'epic videos"..im just telling you.

She knows how you feel. Trust me.

Youve been more than epic enough.
and i admire you all the more for willing to let it all hang out there every single time.

But listen to what she is saying, read between the lines,
read the words she has typed
listen to what she has told you,
and dont romanticize it to the point that you arent hearing what she is really telling you...And all of us.

And let it be ok.
(this i say in HER defense)

GO LIVE YOUR FUCKING LIFE BRO. You are not hideous...you have skills, you have a GREAT heart...theres someone very close to you that can and will appreciate it, i bet.

So yeah sure take your time, stay in touch with Serious..all that, if you want..but DONT WAIT FOR SHIT. GO LIVE RIGHT THE FUCK NOW BEFORE YOU DO GET OLD AND HIDEOUS..and confused, and bitter and angry and cynical.

If we trim trolls advice some... about growing some balls,
id apply it like this (youve already shown youve got balls by globetrotting for a first date)

..the next time you see a cute girl in your area, someone you can see without spending $1800..then just walk up and say.."Hey, youre kinda cute, can i meet you somewhere for lunch..to see if maybe we have anything in common?"....You goofy fucker... you are good looking enough, that I bet..just bet you MIGHT have some fucking (inexpensive and gratifying) luck with that shit.

Try that sorta ball growing. I promise you, you'll thank me.
Let the confidence that took you to A-Dam, drive the next move..


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PostMon Sep 10, 2012 3:53 pm » by Troll2rocks


Ignore Low NEM. He loves confrontation and does not truly care about our beloved upcoming porn we promised ourselves. He is seeking attention and wants to be patted on the back for a nice post, and to be congratulated for being a true friend.

Lets not forget, this same true friend, was calling you a fictional computer smurf only a month ago. :flop:
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PostMon Sep 10, 2012 3:56 pm » by Lucidlemondrop


A golden boat, huh?

hmmmmm.....
What a long strange trip it's been..............

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PostMon Sep 10, 2012 3:57 pm » by Lowsix


Troll2rocks wrote:Lets not forget, this same true friend, was calling you a fictional computer smurf only a month ago. :flop:


No i wasnt, you stupid fucking asshole.
Someone ELSE insinuated that.
(someone that knew better, btw)

I never even IMPLIED it...
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PostMon Sep 10, 2012 3:58 pm » by Troll2rocks


Lucidlemondrop wrote:A golden boat, huh?

hmmmmm.....



Oooooo, okay. Hey baby. :mrcool: Il max out my credit for a fake smile :love:
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PostMon Sep 10, 2012 3:59 pm » by Spock


I all seriousness. It's none of any of our business. I would just like to ask that the crowded japanese bus grope porn idea not be sidelined.

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PostMon Sep 10, 2012 4:09 pm » by Troll2rocks


Lowsix wrote:
Troll2rocks wrote:Lets not forget, this same true friend, was calling you a fictional computer smurf only a month ago. :flop:


No i wasnt, you stupid fucking asshole.
Someone ELSE insinuated that.
(someone that knew better, btw)

I never even IMPLIED it...


I am not stupid, but asshole I will accept. (Depending on mood) Today you are lucky. :hugging: :cheers:

Are you serious you had nothing to do with that at all ? Really ?

I think you are right about a lot in your posts in this thread in regards to living life etc, however...

You never even implied that SeriousCitizen and NewEarthMan were the same person ? Or that most of the members on here are controlled by a dozen or so people who are all acting out multiple personas ? Really ?.


I tell you what, if you say you are deeply sorry for calling me an asshole, and that I am your master and god. I will not ban you permanently. Whadaya say ? :cheers:
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