To All The Fathers: What Would You Do?

Mon Jul 25, 2011 9:07 pm » by **Mob 2,0**

thanks for sharing that T. i know what you mean.

guys i know it's a thought question. but this got me thinking.

this type of things happens all the time. around the world. but have to learn how to do the right thing the hardest thing in life the best you can. cos we dont. this whole thing feels like a ONE BIG TEST hffffffffffffffff

and then wait then the qonsequenses in the future.

so are childrens childrens will strugle even more than we do to day.

just like to to share my thouts with ya. peace love understanding :hugging:

Mon Jul 25, 2011 9:07 pm » by **Slith**

demobe wrote:Doom Dlslith same here guys. i dont have the heart to say that to kid.

fuck that i think kill myself first. it's like pulling the trigger yourself.

Yeah Demobe, I could never bring myself to kill myself. As I've always done, I'd live through the pain. And to be honest, my life has been hell. Why I haven't offed myself is a serious fuck you to anyone who says I have no spine

Mon Jul 25, 2011 9:23 pm » by **Mob 2,0**

dlslith wrote:
demobe wrote:Doom Dlslith same here guys. i dont have the heart to say that to kid.

fuck that i think kill myself first. it's like pulling the trigger yourself.

Yeah Demobe, I could never bring myself to kill myself. As I've always done, I'd live through the pain. And to be honest, my life has been hell. Why I haven't offed myself is a serious fuck you to anyone who says I have no spine

you got my respect man :sunny:

i asked my father the same question. he said maybe if too much pressure is in air. but in my heart never :shooting:

. i love him and respect him even more :hugging:

Mon Jul 25, 2011 9:33 pm » by **Thruster**

Knowing me, I would be blaming everything and anything else other than my kids.

My wife is worse than me, she's like a top defence lawyer when the finger of blame is pointed at our kids for anything.

Don't mean to be horrible, it's just the way we are, when the shit hits the fan, we stand together as a family.

Mon Jul 25, 2011 9:42 pm » by **Tertiusgaudens**

I have often in my life struggles with compulsive thoughts - there were many times I wanted to commit suicide. This is a deep reason, why I can understand suicidal people, and I have never found a reason judging them.

No, surely I am not a hero in any direction, but I am still alive. It is the same with the case here. If I would kill myself I am aware, that there are people out there I would break their life spine. This is the main insight in all my weak hours, that I would not only kill myself, but also my kids and others in their life will.

Over the years I have found the "next day rule" - every time I felt the wish of being dead, I said: ok, not yet, I will wait for tomorrow and see, how I feel then. This rule has become very important to me, even in cases of urgent decisions or rage cases. I prefer to wait till tomorrow and see, how I feel then.

Shit, and somehow I am still willing to live always trying to take my life as it is.

God, I wish, the Oslo guy would have waited for the next day, when his thoughts have made him almost mad...

But there is another terrible thing. Now the media and ordinary people speak about this guy as if they would really know, better know. And they come to conclusions that help only their prejudices. In reality their minds are similarily twisted like the the twisted mind of the guy. And reality is also, that sensible and basicly good-minded people find hardly understanding in our rude wolf society.

Yeah, the Oslo guy thing has much to do with all of us...

Mon Jul 25, 2011 9:43 pm » by **Slith**

demobe wrote:
dlslith wrote:
demobe wrote:Doom Dlslith same here guys. i dont have the heart to say that to kid.

fuck that i think kill myself first. it's like pulling the trigger yourself.

Yeah Demobe, I could never bring myself to kill myself. As I've always done, I'd live through the pain. And to be honest, my life has been hell. Why I haven't offed myself is a serious fuck you to anyone who says I have no spine

you got my respect man

i asked my father the same question. he said maybe if too much pressure is in air. but in my heart never . i love him and respect him even more

You are blessed my friend. I have no parents left. My dad left me 5 years ago. He was my best friend. I've never got over it. Live for the day mon ami. Cause ya never know what this bitch ass world is gonna throw at ya.
Respect sir, comin back at ya big time.

Mon Jul 25, 2011 10:16 pm » by **Mob 2,0**

thruster you and your wife are soldiers my friend. :pray:

living in this crazy crazy craaaaaazy world. are familis thats all we got left my friend. to give us curech to help one another. if we cant be there for are loved ones. then i dont think it is a point of living my at all. it's like my philosophertertiusgaudens :pray:

says the Oslo guy thing has much to do with all of us

no metter were we are from or what backgrounds we have. we all fighting for the same thing. and its time show more ppl this way of thinking. cos i belive its the best way of thinking.

dlslith mon ami. doble respect back at ya.and i realy realy mean that

my friend you still surviving and smiling after all the shit you been thro.

that must mean something. your dad never left you . he's just on vacation like we all are peace and love :hugging:

Mon Jul 25, 2011 10:29 pm » by **Cwmman**

i would ask "why" and so many grieving people will want to know why as well .
There are many sick people locked up to this day who take pleasure in not explaining the sick crimes they have commited, it must be their way of controlling the situation.
I have a son and he aint an angel, but he would never do that.

Mon Jul 25, 2011 10:39 pm » by **Mob 2,0**

cwmman wrote:i would ask "why" and so many grieving people will want to know why as well .
There are many sick people locked up to this day who take pleasure in not explaining the sick crimes they have commited, it must be their way of controlling the situation.
I have a son and he aint an angel, but he would never do that.

do you want to know why you son will never do that.

that's because of you. you are there to learn him and guide him.

the gunman`s father, is a bich as mother fucker thats why. cos hes father never was there for him

it's not the children's fault it's ours :bang;

children are like an empty hard drive.it all depence on us

Mon Jul 25, 2011 10:52 pm » by **Boondox681**

it's one thing to say it after the fact.
i'm sure he didn't feel that way the day before this happened

peace