What attracts you to your partner. Or would if you had one

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:12 am » by **domdabears**

I don't have a "nice" car.

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:14 am » by **ZetaRediculous**

Strength of character

Passion. Not just in the respect of a relationship, just to be passionate about something that they can talk for hours on a subject...

Sense of humour

to be able to sit in comfortable silence

Any other attribute are an added bonus

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:25 am » by **Spock**

ZetaRediculous wrote:Strength of character

Passion. Not just in the respect of a relationship, just to be passionate about something that they can talk for hours on a subject...

Sense of humour

to be able to sit in comfortable silence

Any other attribute are an added bonus

Indeed. I described my wife. I also love that she is introverted, like me.

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:25 am » by **Poooooot**

@lucid You're right. And a man having passion for something. Even if its not something I would agree with, if he's passionate about it, that's a turn on

Also, I forgot to mention, the ability to just sit and do nothing and still have fun. Laying around watching tv, or even just cuddling in bed in silence. If you can hold her attention with nothing but your company, you're in! :flop:

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:30 am » by **Lucidlemondrop**

Poooooot wrote:@lucid You're right. And a man having passion for something. Even if its not something I would agree with, if he's passionate about it, that's a turn on

Also, I forgot to mention, the ability to just sit and do nothing and still have fun. Laying around watching tv, or even just cuddling in bed in silence. If you can hold her attention with nothing but your company, you're in!

Right on! The part about being comfortable doing nothing and not worrying about those jammies on at noon on Saturday morning is pretty important.

You know what is odd? I was never able to answer that question until it appeared on this thread, it is easy to know what you don't want, but takes some reflection to know what you do want.

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:31 am » by **ZetaRediculous**

Spock wrote:

Indeed. I described my wife. I also love that she is introverted, like me.

Your wife is a babe dude!!! :look:

hehe..

but beauty is only skin deep and only lasts so long so we need our partners to have more to them than the aesthetic, especially when the looks fade, as they do for all of us..

And if you've found that, then you are a lucky man my friend. :flop:

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:32 am » by **Poooooot**

Lucidlemondrop wrote:
domdabears wrote:
Toxic32 wrote:For men it would be I have a fit body. I'm tall. I have a big dick(Or nice car. As they are interchangeable) And I think I'm good looking? I can talk the the knickers off a camel. If I get you laughing I'm guaranteed a shag.

Have you been spying on me????

For real...

Kind of weird, dude.

What kind of car did you say you drove, Dom Dom?

domdabears wrote:I don't have a "nice" car.

HELLO!!!!!! :lol:

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:33 am » by **domdabears**

Hey, someone got it ^

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:36 am » by **Toxic32**

I must admit what presser my button and gets my attention is, how she responds too off the cuff questions. I'm trying to find out about this women, what she likes and how she feels about life and things in general. Does she think? In my opinion most don't. Then it's just a one night stand and it's get back with the program and she is just a shag. (come on girls that's what we are programmed for) Impregnate as many women we can get away with. You are in control. I'm not attracted to fat women. (Can't take care of her self means she wont take care of me or our kids) I don't mind if she doesn't use make up to hid her looks or dressers for comfort. That means she is happy in her own skin and I love that. I look deeper, I like to cross swords on an ineffectual level. She doesn't have to be a genius just have an enquiring mind...That's what does it for me.

It's a myth that men prefer big tits. Most men will admit to ogling over nude women with big tits. That's how we fit in with the lads. It's a big laugh...Problem is that, that's women think makes them attractive to men and spend shed loads of money getting implants. A big hug and a meaningful kiss matters a lot.

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:36 am » by **Poooooot**

One of my favorite "quotes" is from Paul Newman's wife Joanne Woodward Newman:

Sexiness wears thin after a while and beauty fades, but to be married to a man that makes you laugh everyday, ah, now that's a real treat.

Edit to fix a stupid autocorrect