What attracts you to your partner. Or would if you had one

Thu Feb 14, 2013 2:33 am » by **Toxic32**

Is it for the female, the typical money and power thing. And for men the classical big tits and nice arse.(I mean good looking). I would imagine it depends where you see you self on the pulling scale? For men it would be I have a fit body. I'm tall. I have a big dick(Or nice car. As they are interchangeable) And I think I'm good looking? I can talk the the knickers off a camel. If I get you laughing I'm guaranteed a shag.

For women (and this is a purely male perspective) I don't have big tit's but it's amazing what bra's can do these days. My hair is great, my arse look's good in these genes, I smell nice and will talk about sport if I have to. My underwear is sexy. But there is no way he is going to see them on the first date...(but just in case)???? You tell me. A man spends a bout 10 minuets getting ready for a date. How long do girls take? And why? The thing is we men know you in control. But nature bless her, has deleted that part of your brain and you only stumble on it by mistake......I will say no more for fear of being hung up by my balls... :peep:

Thu Feb 14, 2013 2:47 am » by **The57ironman**

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...this is all i gotta say...

Thu Feb 14, 2013 2:51 am » by **domdabears**

Toxic32 wrote:For men it would be I have a fit body. I'm tall. I have a big dick(Or nice car. As they are interchangeable) And I think I'm good looking? I can talk the the knickers off a camel. If I get you laughing I'm guaranteed a shag.

Have you been spying on me????

For real...

Kind of weird, dude.

:peep:

Thu Feb 14, 2013 2:52 am » by **Spock**

First thing for me is face, then style and how the woman presents herself. Then ass of course. Boobs, I like all sizes.

I've never gone for blondes though. Not saying they're not pretty but I always liked brunettes. Also like the "girl next door" look waaaay more than the hot model look.

For instance, I think Dutchess Kate is smokin' hot.

Anyway, that's just my taste - to each their own.

Thu Feb 14, 2013 2:58 am » by **Poooooot**

This thread is going to be VERRRRY interesting :lol:

But I can chime in with a female perspective. Money doesn't matter. At all. It's all about the sense if humor and a nice smile. A good body doesn't hurt, but it's not necessary. I've always gone for the "tall, dark, and handsome" thing (Jake Gyllenhaal, Johnny Depp, Colin Farrell, etc)...

If you are dating (or thinking about dating) a girl that cares more about your looks and your wallet than she does your personality, then you better run in the other direction, cuz you're either gonna get hurt or ripped off. Or both.

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:02 am » by **SUKHOV**

1. The smile.
2. If the eyes connect, and it seems like they lose their breath(which my wife does all the time) it makes me go wild.
3. accents (crap i'm a sucker for those)
4. smarts (when she can explain something I don't understand)
5. when she is ecstatic to see when me when I get off of work.
6. her beauty. A natural beauty is unlike any other, and cannot be duplicated. maybe the dimple on her right cheek isn't symmetrical to her left, but man, does she have a glow like nothing i've seen.
7. Sex Appeal. the way she walks. the tasteful outfits she wears (when she looks classy, but sexy)

and that's mostly it.

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:03 am » by **Toxic32**

It's universally understood. Most well lived men will fall back on. Get them relaxed get them laughing and you will here the twang of knicker elastic.

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:07 am » by **Malogg**

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:09 am » by **domdabears**

Malogg wrote:

That's some smooth shit right there.

:flop:

Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:10 am » by **Lucidlemondrop**

domdabears wrote:
Toxic32 wrote:For men it would be I have a fit body. I'm tall. I have a big dick(Or nice car. As they are interchangeable) And I think I'm good looking? I can talk the the knickers off a camel. If I get you laughing I'm guaranteed a shag.

Have you been spying on me????

For real...

Kind of weird, dude.

What kind of car did you say you drove, Dom Dom?

Personally I am attracted to a Man with a good sense of humor, easy going, like to be around family and travel. Smart, comfortable in his own skin and considerate of the feelings of others.

Standing for something that helps make the world a kinder place is also important.

Not shallow, as in the kind of guy only interested in tits and ass.............and a good kisser!

Money and power not important, but the ethic to provide for or at least pull his part in the finances is necessary. And Courage..............to change and adapt to life, to admit they could be wrong and compromise, and to commit to a woman.

To have his own life and allow his woman to have her own life as well, spending time both together and perusing hobbies of his own while encouraging her to do the same.

To be a supportive listener while himself opening up to her when something is on his mind.

Most of all to like to cuddle

:sunny:

edit to add

@Malogg................SWEET