People are people and they react to things in various ways. No one knows who Q is, or even if it is one or several people. There is no such thing as "Qanon, " despite the falsehoods the media has been reporting the last several weeks. There is Q, an anonymous person that makes posts (originally at 4chan, then at 8chan until big tech seemed to decide they didn’t like it so it was de-platformed) so now it all happens at 8kun.
Those that follow and respond are also anonymous (everyone is as that is a requirement) so they are referred to as anons, and that is how you get the terminology that the media uses. Next to nothing that has been claimed was ever mentioned in an actual Q post. Anons do research on the things mentioned, but then they make their own interpretations which are usually never verified or argued against by Q. Occasionally a thing will be verified directly by Q, but not often.
That means that the many thousands of theories that the anons come up with and post about don’t necessarily have anything to do with Q or what was posted. Think whatever you like about it, either way, everyone is entitled to their opinion, but the truth of it is that no one actually knows what the case is. A LARP posting sh*t for fun and to drive some crazy? That is often the claim, but no one has yet proven it true. A government or intelligence insider dropping tips for anons to research themselves and try to work towards conclusions? It could be, but no one can really prove that either. You’re left with 6 of one and a half dozen of the other without ever actually knowing.
The way people think or speak or react after reading through all of it is their own responsibility. Marriages that end over it may not have been very solid to begin with on one hand, but there are also crazy people out there in the world that do and say crazy things for no good reason. It amounts to the same, 6 of one and a ha;f dozen of the other. Both ways you get the average variety you find in life. Nothing sad about it in the least. The people that come to sadness through it would have anyhow because they already had the character flaws that are the actual cause. Let them grow up and be responsible for the result. Nothing is really all that complicated.